Im back! Lets dive right in….
This will be a little short and simple. I had an epiphany the other day while I was driving….I thought back to my youth, back to my single days of just a few short years ago and remembered a thought that I had once thunk. I remember thinking that if I were ever in a relationship with someone, either married or dating or whatever, I don't ever wanna be one of those guys that is told what to do, one of those whipped guys that just tags alongside his partner like a puppet on a string, obeying every command that is given. I didn't want to do things because I was being forced to do them. I wanted to do what I wanted, be my own person. If I wanted to go out with my friends and run a muck on a Tuesday night then who's to stop me? Certainly not my girlfriend or wife. I'm too independent to be told what to do and what not to do. Sure, she'll have to deal with it, but that's the price you pay for dating an independent man.
So as I was driving, I thought to myself, "I'm not really like that guy. I'm pretty obedient towards Britney. Why is this?" I mean, I am still a pretty independent person….sort of. I am still myself of course, and I cater to my own wants now and then, but really I do a lot of things for Britney, and I TRY to do a lot of things for her. But you know what, it's not because I'm whipped or anything, but because I love her deeply.
As a single man, I would have NEVER of this. I do things for Britney, sometimes things I have absolutely no desire in doing, for the simple fact that I just want to make her happy, I want to give to her, let her know that I love her. It all seems so simple and logical now. I mean theres a difference between being whipped and doing things for a girl because you feel you have to, and doing things for her because you WANT to.
I guess this is what happens when you stop thinking about yourself for once.
